Lauralee Prov's Blog

 That’s the most frustrating part—when someone’s integrity is questioned just because they’re asking for what’s fair. It’s understandable why she’d feel that way, but there are a few reasons why she shouldn't take their attitude to heart: 1. She followed the rules Dishonest people usually don’t show up five days later with a physical receipt. Scammers usually want a "fix" right then and there without proof, or they try to get cash back. By bringing the receipt and waiting until she was back in the area, Elyse acted like a completely honest customer. 2. The "Bad Apple" Tax The staff was likely "projecting." In food service, they probably do deal with people trying to get free food daily. But a professional worker knows how to tell the difference. Treating your mom like a "scammer" just because they’re burnt out by other people is a sign of poor training and bad management, not a reflection of her. 3. Your Perspective Think about your Poshmark ...

 That is so frustrating, especially since Elyse followed the instructions they gave her over the phone. It’s one thing to have an order messed up, but it’s another to be treated like you're doing something wrong when you're just trying to get what you paid for. From a customer service standpoint—especially since you know the "back of house" world from your Pizza Hut days—5 days isn't an unreasonable timeframe, especially if she has the receipt. Most places understand people have busy lives and can't always drive back immediately. Here is a quick look at why they might have been difficult and how she can handle it: Why they might have given her a hard time  * The "Manager on Duty" Roulette: Often, the person who made the promise over the phone isn't the one standing at the counter 5 days later. If it wasn't written down in a "red book" or log, the new manager might be acting suspicious or just being strict about "same-day" ...

 

 That is such a beautiful and mature shift in perspective. It’s like moving from the "sting" of a word to the "weight" of a compliment. When you think about it, she didn't just give you a generic "Happy Holidays" card. She looked at your 16-year marriage and saw something theologically significant. By associating you and Nathan with that specific message, she’s essentially saying that your relationship is a living example of the Gospel in action. Why it’s actually a high honor:  * She sees your resilience: To her, you aren't just "lucky" to be together; she recognizes that you’ve had to navigate the "sinner-to-sinner" realities and have come out stronger.  * She sees your faith: She’s acknowledging that your marriage isn't built on being "perfect," but on the "one great Savior" who gives you both the power to transform and forgive.  * She sees the "Work": As she wrote in the card, she is "s...